Rules · Rituals · Merits · Consequences
The rules you set. The trust you keep.
Owner & Pet is a private app for couples in a D/s dynamic — held in one shared space. Build stronger connection.
Pet? Hand this to your Owner
Everyone starts free · No credit card · Upgrades inside the app
A glimpse of your ledger
What trust feels like
Trust isn't spoken. It's kept.
A dynamic asks the one question no couple can afford to answer twice: will you do what you said? Owner & Pet holds the answer in one private ledger — so trust stops depending on memory, mood, or who argues better.
When the rule is kept — you feel held.
When the consequence is honored — you feel seen.
When the ledger is honest — you feel safe.
03 — How it begins
The Owner signs first.
A dynamic takes two, but it begins with one.
01
The Owner creates
One of you signs up and claims the Owner seat. The rules, the matrix, the ledger — set once, held firm.
02
The Pet is invited
The Owner invites their Pet into the dynamic from inside the app. Their view, their tasks, their ledger.
03
Tonight, it's real
The first rule is written. The first merit is earned. The dynamic stops living in your heads.
Visitors of every role are welcome here — but the account begins with the Owner.
01 — What it holds
Not a tracker. A dynamic.
Six instruments, one ledger. Each one replaces a conversation you're tired of having.
Tasks
Today's obedience, tracked.
The day's tasks, pending and complete. You'll never again argue about whether the rule was followed — you'll both just know.
TODAY 0/0 · PENDING 0
Rules & Rituals
Your agreements, written down.
The rules of the house and the rituals that keep it. Codified once, referred to forever — no more versions of the deal competing for memory.
The Ledger
Merit has a balance.
Every merit earned, every demerit incurred, a running balance you both see. Devotion becomes arithmetic; arithmetic never has a bad day.
BALANCE +5 · 0 DEMERITS
Consequences
Structure with teeth.
Cross a threshold in the ledger and the matching consequence or reward triggers itself. The Owner sets the matrix once; the matrix holds the line every night after.
MERIT TRIGGER +100 · DEMERIT TRIGGER −50
Compliance
The truth, measured.
Task completion, merit ratio, acknowledgment — one honest number for how the dynamic is actually going. Quietly visible. Impossible to argue with.
OVERALL COMPLIANCE 50%
AI Intelligence
A second opinion on your dynamic.
On Premium, the app reads your ledger and suggests the next rule, the fitting consequence, the ritual you haven't thought of. Premium unlocks the full depth.
02 — Why this exists
Habit trackers help you build habits. Owner & Pet helps you build a relationship of consequence.
A to-do app forgets. A ledger doesn't.
This isn't gamification of your life. It's the infrastructure of your power exchange.
Built for two people who decided their dynamic deserves more than a group chat.
One of you holds the dynamic. One of you surrenders to it. Both of you live inside it — with the same facts.
Is this for you?
If one of these sounds like your kitchen table, the ledger is waiting.
Owner & Pet isn't for everyone. It's for two people who mean it — in whatever shape that takes.
We're looking for a deeper connection
Structure isn't the opposite of intimacy — it's the container for it. Written rituals and a shared ledger turn intention into something you feel daily.
Claim the Owner seat →We're curious but new
No experience required. Start with one rule and one ritual; the dynamic earns its own depth while the app holds the structure.
Claim the Owner seat →We keep losing track
You agreed. Then life happened. One shared ledger holds what was promised — no more arguing about what was said.
Claim the Owner seat →Pet? Hand this to your Owner — the seat is yours either way.
04 — The tiers
Everyone starts free.
Begin on the Free plan tonight. When the dynamic outgrows it, upgrade inside the app — never on this site. No credit card. No payment here, ever.
Free — Lay the Foundation
$0
- 10 active tasks
- 5 rules
- 5 rituals
- The ledger, with core merits & demerits
- Shared dashboard for Owner & Pet
Most begin here
Pro — Deepen the Connection
$9.99/mo
- Expanded tasks, rules & rituals
- Full ledger history
- Scheduled reports on the dynamic
- Everything in Free
Premium — Absolute Mastery
$19.99/mo
- Full AI intelligence — suggestions, the next rule, the fitting consequence
- Everything in Pro
All three tiers live inside the app — begin free tonight and upgrade there, only if the dynamic outgrows it. Cancel anytime.
05 — The covenant
Asked honestly. Answered honestly.
Who can see our dynamic?
Only the two of you. Your dynamic is private by default — it isn't searchable, shareable, or fed to anyone else's feed. Our full privacy terms are in the Privacy Policy.
Is our data private?
The ledger, rules, and rituals are yours. We don't sell data, run ads against your dynamic, or show it to anyone. Read the Privacy Policy before you enter — we wrote it to be read.
We're long-distance. Does it work?
It was practically built for this. Wherever you both are, the ledger is the same place. Rules are enforced at midnight in Tokyo and midnight in Toronto — the dynamic never sleeps because you're apart.
Do we have to be 24/7?
No. Some couples run a full-time power exchange; others keep a single evening ritual a week. Owner & Pet holds whatever cadence you give it — from one rule to a whole house of them.
More questions — ask us anything.
Why we built this
A short letter, before you decide anything.
We built Owner & Pet because we had lived the problem. Ideas and rituals made in the dark of a good night, half-remembered by morning. Rules that mattered, dissolved by busy weeks. Consequences never delivered — and the slow erosion of needed consistency and desire that followed, where nobody did anything wrong but the trust got thinner anyway.
Spreadsheets felt absurd. Habit trackers feeling misaligned. Nothing built for two people who had chosen, deliberately, to hold each other accountable.
So we built the experience we wanted: private, luxurious, honest. A place where a rule is written once and kept for as long as you both mean it. Where rituals are kept. Where technology can help build our fun — and we make the decisions.
We don't keep anything we don't need, and we won't pretend this app is for everyone. It's for two people who mean it.
If that's you — welcome. Take the Owner seat, or hand this to yours.
— The makers of Owner & Pet
The first entry
Set your first rule tonight.
Claim the Owner seat, invite your Pet, and write the first entry of the ledger — before the night is over.
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