The honest answers.

Is a D/s app actually private?

Yes — that's the premise. Your dynamic is visible to the two of you and no one else: not searchable, not shareable, not fed into anyone else's feed. We don't sell data and we don't run ads against your ledger. Read the Privacy Policy; we wrote it to be read.

Is there a consent app for couples?

That's the honest description of Owner & Pet. Every rule, ritual, and consequence is written down, agreed to, and revocable — the app holds the paperwork of consent so you two can hold the meaning.

Do we both need accounts?

Yes — one for each of you. The Owner signs up first, sets the shape of the dynamic, then invites the Pet from inside the app. The ledger only works when you both hold a key to it.

What does the free plan include?

10 tasks, 5 rules, 5 rituals, and the ledger with core merits and demerits — free, with no credit card. Pro ($9.99/mo) and Premium ($19.99/mo) exist inside the app if you ever outgrow it.

Can we cancel or delete everything?

Anytime, inside the app. Cancelling stops billing; deleting removes your dynamic's data. What you two built is yours — leaving shouldn't hold it hostage.

Is this only for experienced couples?

No. Some members run 24/7 dynamics that have evolved for years; others write their first rule the night they sign up. Start with one rule and one ritual — the depth will come.

What does the AI actually see, and can we turn it off?

On Premium, the AI reads your ledger and history to suggest rules, rituals, and consequences — and you can ignore every suggestion it makes. On Free and Pro the app works entirely without it.

Does it work on our phones?

Yes — the same app publishes to iOS, Android, and the web. The dynamic never sleeps, and neither does the ledger.

Who can see our dynamic?

Only the two of you. Your dynamic is private by default — it isn't searchable, shareable, or fed to anyone else's feed. Our full privacy terms are in the Privacy Policy.

Is our data private?

The ledger, rules, and rituals are yours. We don't sell data, run ads against your dynamic, or show it to anyone. Read the Privacy Policy before you enter — we wrote it to be read.

We're long-distance. Does it work?

It was practically built for this. Wherever you both are, the ledger is the same place. Rules are enforced at midnight in Tokyo and midnight in Toronto — the dynamic never sleeps because you're apart.

Do we have to be 24/7?

No. Some couples run a full-time power exchange; others keep a single evening ritual a week. Owner & Pet holds whatever cadence you give it — from one rule to a whole house of them.

Who signs up first?

The Owner. They create the dynamic, set the rules and consequence matrix, then invite their Pet from inside the app. If you're the Pet, hand this page to your Owner — or claim the seat yourself; the roles are chosen in-app, not at birth.

How does payment work?

You never pay on this site. Every account starts on the Free plan — 10 tasks, 5 rules, 5 rituals. If you outgrow it, you upgrade to Pro ($9.99/mo) or Premium ($19.99/mo) inside the app, and cancel there anytime.

Is this safe and consensual?

Owner & Pet is for consenting adults, 18 and over. Everything in the app — every rule, ritual, and consequence — exists inside agreement you both gave. If it's not consensual, it's not this.

What does the AI actually see?

On Premium, the app's AI reads your ledger and task history to suggest rules, rituals, and consequences. You can ignore every suggestion it makes. Its full depth unlocks on Premium; the Free and Pro plans work entirely without it.